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|How will you know God has placed the perfect guy in your life when neither you or the guy knows? I know this guy who fits the "my perfect husband" list, but I don't know how to react.|
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Time and prayer are the primary tools for answering your question. The mere qualities of a perfect mate ARE NOT necessarily a sign from God that a particular person is “the perfect mate.”
If you can make a list of reasons why you “love” someone then you probably do not “love” them; instead, you just really admire or respect them or have a profound attraction to them personally. True love simply must. When it comes down to it, God does not have any good reasons in human terms to love humans, but He does anyway because His ways are higher than ours. Love transcends logic.
Along the same lines, if you can form a list of reasons why and how this person is “the one,” then they probably are not “the one.”
Use time and prayer and the Word of God to guide you. If this becomes difficult to manage or understand, please do not hesitate to seek spiritual encouragement from the pastoral staff by contacting the church office during normal business hours.
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